When you were single, you spent a lot of time yearning for love (and sex), looking for love (and sex), and prepping for love (and sex). Now that you’ve been a couple for awhile, love may be ever present—but sex, well, that’s probably a different story. For many overwhelmed couples, time and energy for sex becomes a casualty of their hectic, dueling schedules. As a result, couples typically wait for just the right occasion to have an “ideal” sexual encounter. Weeks, even months, may go by before the desire and freedom to indulge align; then the pressure is on to make that rarefied moment “perfect” and “memorable.” Uh oh. I’ll bet you know how well that ends.
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