Top 20 Tips for Going Down on a Woman

After creating videos to teach the basics of oral sex to both men and women, I received a number of letters from women saying, “I sure wish you’d teach men what NOT to do, too.” They had a point: sometimes, learning “how to” is best achieved in reverse. With that in mind, I offer my list of Top Twenty Don’ts for those of you who wish to become skilled oral lovers. However, there’s one “don’t” that supersedes all others: Don’t let anyone’s advice override your partner’s wishes. If she enjoys something that completely contradicts some of these suggestions, rely on her words, not mine.